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Why are some guys more attracted to me now as a newly single Mother of a beautiful baby girl than before I got pregnant?

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    bmaninca - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by bmaninca Mar 23rd, 2012 at 3:10PM

    Okay I dont know what you look like but let me try going down a list here of what could be.

    Lets see your radiant as in the hormones involved in your pregnancy has made your skin much clearer then normally and you have actually become radiant as in the light bounces off you in a way that makes your eyes sparkle and give you that rosy look that women get when they are really turned on which in turn signals men that you are in a sensual state of mind although most guys would not be consciously aware of it.

    Your breasts might be larger and rounder at the top.. okay this will not make much sense but the shape of a woman's breast if she is breast feeding or if she has just has a child is much different from the shape of natural breasts when a woman is not in either of those states... its not a matter of being larger its the actual shape of the breast itself. Your nipples might be showing more... as in harder and easier to spot then normal... You have to combine it with the above mentioned effect ... when the two effects are tied together it gives a different image then hot or hot and ready.

    You are vulnerable yet self confident. By being this way you are a lighthouse beacon to the guys with white night syndrome ... the first instinct these men will have is to scoop you up and love you and take care of you and your baby.

    While taking care of your baby you are showing softness and a gentleness that goes along with being a mom... this attitude and behavior is something that prys with guys... kind of makes them remind them of their mothers in a way I guess or gives them a small sense of emotional security as if you will love them as unconditionally as the baby.

    Your voice inflection has changed.... now that your a mom you have the ability to speak in a more relaxed and lower vocal tones that seems to knock out aggression.

    You could have breast milk... lets not get into this too much but yeah a lot of guys like the thought of it even if they dont like the taste of it... so you can score one on the sex scale.

    You smell different... new moms smell different... the odor is more pronounced and is much sweater smelling then bitter.

    Your owned and abandoned... another guy has tagged you and owns your *** and has left you to die so to speak so its easier to step in and take over (wild kingdom thing... guy wouldn't be conscious of it.)

    You might actually have a need for a guy. --- Believe it or not but sometimes guys like to be needed / wanted in emotional terms.

    Your virginal...LOL okay so this contradicts everything... but... as a new mother you have lost all of your sluttiness but will gain it back as soon as you start to speak.... this is a weird and difficult to explain.

    Now that your a woman you can be romantic and sensual .... appealing to the mans insides rather then outsides


    Sooo now that you are a puppy.. and you are a little lost puppy. Figure out how to use it to your advantage...lol.

    Hope my weird l

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  1. Echo - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Echo Mar 23rd, 2012 at 7:21PM

    All of this makes absolute perfect sense! Thank you :D

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9 Answers to "Why are some guys more attracted to me now as a newly single Mother of a beautiful baby girl than before I got pregnant?"

  1. puffyhoo4u - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by puffyhoo4u Mar 22nd, 2012 at 8:04PM

    Now they know, without a doubt, that you have sex.

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  2. blingblogbloop - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by blingblogbloop Mar 22nd, 2012 at 8:07PM

    prolly because they know that some single mothers are easier and childless girls are harder to please.

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  3. betaguy - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by betaguy Mar 22nd, 2012 at 7:54PM

    I'm guessing because you are more radiant now than ever

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  4. boonroonru - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by boonroonru Apr 20th, 2012 at 3:48AM

    You probably have the warm glow of motherhood.

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  5. JooJooBee - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by JooJooBee Mar 22nd, 2012 at 8:06PM

    They want to be your hero?
    They think you are needy and desperate?
    They want to be your Baby Daddy?

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  6. Violetbeauregard - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Violetbeauregard Mar 22nd, 2012 at 7:57PM

    i wondered that too, then I decided it must be because i stopped caring what others thought of me. being a mom made me confident!

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  7. sharpTresHombre - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by sharpTresHombre Mar 22nd, 2012 at 7:56PM

    welfare

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  8. PeyoteCoyote - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by PeyoteCoyote Mar 22nd, 2012 at 7:53PM

    Hormones do things to women that men find appealing. Biological imperative.

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