No idea. Perhaps they're just not showing it? You know, the old macho thing, being stoic, etc.?
I had to face this my self. My wife lost one after our son. To me she had not been pregnant that long. Not like the months of her swelling with our first. I must admit I did not feel as sad, as revealed. Thinking there must have been something wrong.
because there sad immature pathetic uncaring fool's