Well if you walked in my path, you would understand, albeit there is always one thing to smile about, after awhile, that one thing is not enough...you'd wish it were,but sadly it isn't.
oh no wasn't looking for sympathy, have come through the horror and out the other side...just sometimes you just can't . But I thank you just the same. : )
i agree with you. theres always something to be happy about. For everyone. Some people are just so drownded in the negitive that they have a hard time finding the positive
Sometimes there is no positive, or if there is it is quickly taken, destroyed or killed against their will.
Hmmmm...You can't always ask that question when you meet people who are 'bitter, grumpy, or just plain unhappy'. There could be many reasons. If you can smile when you think of at least one thing, then good for you. But if it were me, I'd pray for the people who don't love in their life.
It has been my experience to see folks..... who if you handed them EVERYTHING they want, need and whine about incessantly, they'd ***** that it came too late or wasn't the right color....
I've also known folks who had darned little and suffered horrific issues and they can find joy in something as simple as a single flower....
Basic instability, mental illness, flawed genetics and poor upbringing are behind most of these folks.
I think certain meds and therapies can greatly help some. Others are here simply to remind the rest of us to keep smiling and avoid THEM!!
I think there are many different reasons: possibly they have had horrific things that have happened in their lives that leave them emotionally scarred to the point that they cannot handle happiness. I do think that some peoples' personalities are just wired to be that way as well. I do think that most of the bitter persons cannot let go of past hurts and that leads them to continue on the same path. I would say I am one of the blessed ones bc i have been able to leave the pain in the past and walk forward in the sunshine.
i dont know i just got lots of nasty comments to a joke question which was "how do i get rid of the guy asking all the catering questions." one guys reply i though was just ott. i actually answered the catering guys questions not all but most. people were all having a joke about how many questions he asked in a short space of time relating to baking& catering
Life is too short to go through it all bent out of shape, but for some reason some people feel more comfortable being miserable. I can not explain why. They just don't know any better. Maybe just not too highly evolved.
Some have a wounded soul underneath
And what would that one thing be?
Why the hell should anyone be glad to be alive? So they can rot, suffer and die? Connect with others who view life in a similar manner? BULLSHIT! I'd like to slaughter the entire human race.