They confuse a near psychopathic self interest for confidence?
These are weak women who can't be on their own.
The question really should be why are some women Not attracted to narcissistic men.Cause narcissism with its triplets of anti-social and histrionic and borderline cover about anything exciting in a guy. A man who has no traits from that cluster is rather boring indeed. That his lack of cluster C means that he's the best mate for your whole life and the guy who will love your children and pay for their support seems to matter little till the divorce.
The one thing that I learned when practicing law is that any man who won't pay child support is a sociopath--try telling that to some women who thinks that romantic love exists. I never had much sympathy for Laci Petterson--her unborn son, yes, a lot--Conner, know his name, but she--Laci who caught that man, Scott, in bed two times with other women in college while he pretended to be single and she still hung on--shame on her. And her only other boyfriend is in the same prison as her husband for another murder. So, what does that tell you? Some women just like being charmed and manipulated. I liked it myself till I saw it for what it was. Every woman who feels slighted and worried that her husband is cheating--he is. He is. He just knows that your lying eyes will never belive it--why he chose you cause his narcissism is cancelled out by your dependency. Smart, happy women marry the interesting eccentric who will never cheat and always love them and their children. But being a woman in this society forces a bit of dependency on you. As culture changes more women will choose what looks good to them and not what looks good to others.
Got it right! Outright boring. Pretending to be smart *** but it's just a front.....he is actually a dumbass. No common sense at all. He needs instruction written so he can follow. How sad!
Confidence and self belief are seen as positive genetic traits, even leadreship qualities, desirable in a mate. Its at a subsonscious level of course although some women deliberably target powerful , well resourced men because they can provide for wife and children. Darwinism in action and on display. How else would an annoying oick like Mick Jagger ever have got to procreate?
some like being mentally slapped around...?
In most cases, the narcissistic man shows up at the "right time" for the woman. This means that the woman has some needs and he can satisfies those. He is charismatic, interesting, intelligent, funny and he looks really self-confident. The woman is attracted to his strength, severe character, stability (he is "man on a place" type), kindness and senсе of humor. In short: he's the man that every woman has dreamed about as a little girl!
My wife said women she knows are attracted to these jerks because it "makes them feel alive," but she said its really just adrenaline from moving out of his swinging fists, or from finding out he's just banged your best friend behind your back.
Because we're perfect!
MENTAL GUYS R HOT