they chase love instead of letting it come to them
cuz women have this false notion that men only look at one women in life !!! Men are like all other male species. They constantly look to "reproduce the species" which is also why women struggle with their age and baby making skills so much. Men are always after new and younger women - it's also what keeps us young mentally.
it makes sense. you just have to find a man that's conditioned liked Pavlov's dog. :( You can't change biology, though.
a little advice - read Men are from Mars/Women are from Venus before you get into another relationship
That book is based on old idea's. Still a good book but current
They often are able to act like Prince (or Princess) charming, but it does not last. This is why one of the warning signs of an abusive person is a whirlwind courtship, because they know they can only fake it for so long.
Because you want to prove to yourself that you're lovable. Of course if someone already loves you for who you are and treats you well, that person doesn't see the real flaws that make people mistreat you. So you go for the jerk who does. You think that if you do the right things, he'll stop being a jerk. He's actually a jerk and will do this to anyone who lets him, because he gains from it. Just like the person who mistreated you when you were little, whomever he may be. You'll eventually see that there's nothing wrong with you. There is however something wrong with both of the jerks, and that's the only reason why you were mistreated.
Wrong. Men suffer more thru breakups, just do some research
I think that too often we, men and women, want so desperately for 'this' to be the 'right person' that we put on blinders to keep us from seeing clues that should tell us that 'this' is NOT the 'right person.' Things like lying and the mistreatment of others are often dismissed; "He (or she) would NEVER do that to me." How do they talk about their ex? that could be you someday. We often use the term "clueless" but when there ARE clues that go unexamined—I don't think that we have a term for that...
People are deceiving. Anyone can be vulnerable.