they chase love instead of letting it come to them
a little advice - read Men are from Mars/Women are from Venus before you get into another relationship
That book is based on old idea's. Still a good book but current
They often are able to act like Prince (or Princess) charming, but it does not last. This is why one of the warning signs of an abusive person is a whirlwind courtship, because they know they can only fake it for so long.
Wrong. Men suffer more thru breakups, just do some research
I think that too often we, men and women, want so desperately for 'this' to be the 'right person' that we put on blinders to keep us from seeing clues that should tell us that 'this' is NOT the 'right person.' Things like lying and the mistreatment of others are often dismissed; "He (or she) would NEVER do that to me." How do they talk about their ex? that could be you someday. We often use the term "clueless" but when there ARE clues that go unexamined—I don't think that we have a term for that...
People are deceiving. Anyone can be vulnerable.