For me it's that I don't let anyone close anymore, because I am happier as single. I'm happy with my life as it is.
You have been hurt..
How long was your longest relationship?
Why did it end and did you think it was going to go somewhere?
It's such a long story.
But I realized that I just feel happier and more content living by myself as single. Relationships, despite not having had many, always end up in worry, stress, hurt and confusion for me.
My last boyfriend was emotionally and mentally very abusive. And I'm glad I got out of that. It lasted only a year, but that year left me in a bad shape. Bad enough that I got heart problems from all the crap and stress. I'm perfectly fine now, and really am happy just to live my life and be able to live it as happy as I can. It's also a peaceful feeling to know there is nothing and no one to worry about, and I can just be me.
There is more to it all, and it probably doesn't make much sense without all the reasons and things, but i don't really want to write it all down here.
Are you rather single as well, or have been hurt?
I will respond to you when I get a chance..
Sorry it took forever to respond.. Yes I'm single but I date once every so often.
You? Are you single yet dating out there? :)
Well, i am made from a very unique mold I guess, tough to match exactly.
There are none worthy :P
I've been married, and divorced, once. I just haven't found anyone that I love to that degree that I'd consider settling down again.
Cause one guy lives far away and the other gives mixed signals
Got burned bad by my ex. I'm too old to go through that again-ever.
because i want to be
I need a job before i look for a boyfriend. I'm still young and i'm not in a hurry.
What will be, will be
finding the right guy
I haven't been single since I was 5.
Never found anyone who thought i was right for them, so i just let that go that way, i dont regret it, it's just the way things turned out
Because I don't want to have anything that would make me want to remain in my town. I want to leave someday and having a loved one like that would hold me back
I'm single because I like being able to be with whom ever I please...with no strings attached...and frankly the women I'm seeing feel the same way...none of us want any more other than the physical relationship....I guess it's called swinging...
i thought you were married
Not married...that's my Sister in my avi...
I've been married twice though....does that count?....teehee
Yes, being married is not always what it's cracked up to be from what I have seen. A lot of married people are really just faking it and are not all that happy.
because I don't want to be with someone i don't love
because I'm FUGLY!!!!
Not still ... again :-)
The list goes on