I have a guy friend and he pay child support constantly. However, that skanky a s s ***** spends the childsupport on drugs and men. The child hardly get anything at all.<br />
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But he tried to get custody of her and the judge thinks the child should be in the mother's care.<br />
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How blind can they get?!<br />
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Then she calls the childsupport office and screams for more money. She is a worthless piece of ****!

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Sadly judges usually take the side of the mother even if she isn't worth her weight in salt. Hire a lawyer or talk to DHS. You don't deserve that and neither does your daughter. And no matter what happens she is YOUR DAUGHTER. Fight for her.

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What do you call "everything else?" Rent(a roof over your child's head)? Clothes(clothing on her back), Food(nurishment), Heat(to keep her warm), Lights(so she's not living by candle light)? Is that what you call every thing else? Does she have a car that she uses to take your child to the doctor? School? A car costs money, doesn't it? And clearly, if a judge ordered you no visitation rights, or whatever "away from me" means to you, then obviously it wasn't "for no good reason." Obviously a judge saw a good reason. Now stop being a damned victim and start being a Dad!

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1st thing you need to do is go to the local child enforcement agency in your state and talk to them. If your sending support directly to her then not a lot you can do without going back to court. But Chld Enforcement can over rule the courts in regards to support payments,visitations and accountability of support payments.<br />
Make all payments to support enforcement and then they will forward the money to her. She then will have to account for every dime that is spent that is support for the child. All child support has to be spent only for the child, including rent(%),food(%) and clothing(%).<br />
Even though the Support enforcement is a State agency they do not receive any state money to operate as they receive the money to operate from the interest off your support payments. They can also overrule the courts<br />
It is also illegal for her to deny visitation to you to see your child(not sure about some states) even if you weren't making payments. In Washington state that is contempt of court and she can be put in jail for it.<br />
Talk to your Support Enforcement Agency)you don't need a lawyer)

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I don't like the child support laws, among others.

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Please, Please Be careful who you marry children are collateral damage in a divorce.Look here on EP alone how many damaged lives. If you think she is harming the child go for it. Consider how this looks to a child. The two people that made me hating each other. What am? but half of each.So tread softly in your little ones world for you have forgotten how big parents loom and the love that should never be questioned importance in that small world.

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Steal her.

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Get a better lawyer... it's the modern era, men can get custody too. If it's as bad as you imply you should have some evidence or she'll have to provide some reason it shouldn't be shared

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Thats what my x husband did to me.

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