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  1. winstonwelles - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by winstonwelles Jan 8th, 2013 at 4:59AM

    People protect themselves by hiding their true desires and feelings, because admitting them would make them vulnerable to rejection. If a guy comes out and tell you how he feels, he gives you the luxury of deciding how to respond -- that is, it's win-win for you, while he's risking being embarrassed. The way people act when dating is a succession of small admissions of affection passing back and forth, so they can each judge how committed the other person is while still having the option to back out and save face.

    Really confident people might come out and make a grand declaration, but not everyone has the guts. If you don't, you can't expect the other person to.

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  2. badbinary - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by badbinary Jan 8th, 2013 at 5:00AM

    im hungry. you're right that was easy

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  3. plungesponge - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by plungesponge Jan 8th, 2013 at 4:53AM

    You want us to tell you we're horny every seven seconds?

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  4. Kass23 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Kass23 Jan 8th, 2013 at 4:56AM

    Honestly ya haha

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  5. SuperheroFanboy - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by SuperheroFanboy Apr 22nd, 2013 at 6:16PM

    For me, 9 times out of 10, if I don't tell a girl how I feel, its because something stressful is going on and I would rather not talk about it and meditate on a solution quietly. 9 times out of 10 its nothing she did or didn't do that has me closed up and not willing to talk. There is that 1 time of 10 it does happen because of her, but most of the time I meditate on my problems quietly.

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  6. DreamingTaoTiger - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by DreamingTaoTiger Mar 28th, 2013 at 1:31PM

    I feel worried about implicit gender roles and stereotypes because I fit them so poorly and feel like less of an individual when someone refers to it like that......

    There you go. Honest.
    I also hate sports. Compliment and admit some men are good looking...I love a good drama and poetry and no I'm not gay....only when I'm smiling and happy because that's what that word means.

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  7. Thatsmystyle77 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Thatsmystyle77 Mar 28th, 2013 at 1:23PM

    I guess we're confused... lol

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  8. deadpig - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by deadpig Jan 8th, 2013 at 5:05AM

    why do girls feel the need to Hear how a guy feels can't you tell

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  9. Kass23 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Kass23 Jan 8th, 2013 at 5:06AM

    Not when we gives you mixed feelings as it one min he is one way and next a different way.

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  10. deadpig - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by deadpig Jan 8th, 2013 at 5:10AM

    people do this all the time it takes time to read person

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  11. linklock - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by linklock Jan 8th, 2013 at 4:59AM

    What do you mean how do I feel, How do you think I feel? Well that is not what I was feeling so I guess you will not know how I feel. I feel bad that you just gave up and did not find out how I really feel.

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  12. Redredred - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Redredred Jan 8th, 2013 at 4:55AM

    Because if women really understood what most men are thinking, most women wouldn't have anything to do with us.

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  13. Kass23 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Kass23 Jan 8th, 2013 at 4:56AM

    You would be amazed.. Girls aren't Innocent!

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  14. Redredred - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by Redredred Jan 8th, 2013 at 5:07AM

    I was talking about women, not girls and I understand. It isn't about innocence it's about men and their needs, no, their obsession with sex. Most men will tell you anything to get you into bed. Women really don't understand this on the level most men do.

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  15. mstericel - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by mstericel Jan 8th, 2013 at 4:52AM

    Fear of rejection?

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  16. Kass23 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Kass23 Jan 8th, 2013 at 4:53AM

    Ya I Guess but that's going to get you no where..

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  17. mstericel - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by mstericel Jan 8th, 2013 at 4:56AM

    No, of course not. Then again...did you ask him?

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