You never really get over the death of a loved one. You just learn to live without them. Eventually the pain goes from unbearable to something you can live with.<br />
When my best friend died, I came to realize that living for them really does help.
Time while time does not heal it makes it tolerable and we accept it and remember and keep them close to our heart.
Simple: Because you see that yours is near.
try to communicate with a ghost app. some take pics some even allow talking.
I don't think it's accurate to think that death of someone close and important, is ever something you get over.