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Whenever he dont like somthing i say he calls me nasty names he has hit me a few times.he has been a drug addict and i have stood by him through it all now that he is 43 and no longer on drugs except weed,he says he can do better.I am too fat to ugly to stupid etc etc.we have 5 children and i have no family and no where to go.and he told his cousin he can treat me like that because i have no-one,I want to leave but dont know how.
kroman94 kroman94 36-40 18 Answers Jan 20, 2011

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You have been with him for 15 years and you asking NOW <br />
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Weed is still a drug <br />
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You pack you clothes in a suitcase and walk out the door plain and simple <br />
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If you dont leave him then dont complain

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It is a cycle of abuse and you have started to believe the things that he says. You need to just walk out the door...Just get up right now and walk out the door. Go to a shelter or a friends house, tell them that you are being abused and you need somewhere to feel safe and heal. What are you doing still reading this? Get up and leave now.

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Dont take it. leave while you are still able. Some women stay and end up dead. go girl.

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Walk out. New story starts there.

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A man like that is NO GOOD, get out of that rut you living in and take you children with you... meet new people go to church and mix with the congregation, Work at a creche, or school, and make new friends, confide in them and you will get help, even although you have 5 children, you can move on .... open a day care, you have the experience, you must be good with something, open a tuck shop from your house, sell home made cakes, what are your strengths? Dont allow a low life pull you down ... stupid people cannot look after 5 children in fact you a strong women, with feelings and today ; make a change for the better! Remember a women is like a tea bag, you only see her strengh when placed in hot water... you in hot water ... show them all ... you CAN do it!

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YOU are the stupid one for NOT leaving HIM!<br />
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GO!!!<br />
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Do NOT WALK.....RUN!!

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Please listen to BrainyBlonde. It is hard, but you can do it. There is help.

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As usual some people blame the victim. He has sucked the confidence out of you. Maybe you never had any and that's why he chose you. That;s what abusers do. They find someone they can abuse. You can leave only if you really want to. But you CAN get out. Maybe you think the world you live in is the only world there is. You don't deserve to be treated this way. Get some help.

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Get out of this relationship now... NOW... not tomorrow, not tonight, NOW. Get help in getting out if you need to, but GET OUT OF IT! He will ONLY GET WORSE!

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Most likely you have low self esteem. leaving someone is not easy even when they are like that. I left my life after 16 years. I suffered from major depression and she never accepted it. It took a good friend to help me build up my confidence to leave.

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u love it..........its yr identity....... u cant love without it.......

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you feel the desire to punish yourself.

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If you've only been bf/gf for 15 years then something is VERY wrong.<br />
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I also find this situation that you got your own self into very hilarious.

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