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My Brother and I found our Mother dead in bed - then within 14 months my only siblings was murdered. How am I supposed to deal with life?
Sparda78 Sparda78 31-35, F 17 Answers Dec 9, 2012 in Family Struggles

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When my son died my life was shattered<br />
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I don't know how you feel but I can feel the pain of your parents

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Wish I had parents :( My Dad has his own life now - so he keeps telling me x

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My stepbrother died when we were 21. He had been my best pal at primary School, before becoming my stepbrother.<br />
My dad died when I was 8, another good pal died when we were 12, and then my stepbrother at 21. <br />
Death seems to have followed me around and although the pain is always there to some degree, life does go on. Time and tender words will help, as will a lot of hugs and support

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They aren't in your "shoes".<br />
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But I'm sure they want to help you heal too.<br />
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Death is a very sad part of life .. we all have to deal with it in our own ways. We just can't let it make us stop living. I'm sure your brother wouldn't want that for you either.<br />
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He'll always be in your heart! The loss will get easier to cope with after time.<br />
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Please take care.

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take it you mean emotionally. I kinda know the feeling.

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Sorry for your loss. Understandable, but think what would your brother want. I am sure he would want you to carry on with life, have fun, be happy. Know it is not easy, but that is what got me over losing people I love.

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Because they probably refuse to accept that you would give up on life, the same as you refuse to accept that you have to continue life. I'm sure your brother would not want you to give up though, just my opinion.<br />
-btw- my condolences on your loss

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Because you are still here huni .. They want you with them x

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i'm sorry for your lost and no one is gonna understand you unless they have lost someone close to them.

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because they dont really care anyway

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In reality, there is no such thing as separation. Time and space really are an illusion; there is only eternity and true love is eternal. He hasn't really gone anywhere.

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My youngest brother died 12 yrs ago..<br />
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It never leaves your mind..and if Adam is in my mind and in my heart, he will always be..with me..<br />
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Like Ned, my parents life is shattered, scattered like his ashes, under the avocado tree, on our Kibbutz.

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OMG... My brother was named Adam... shocked me reading this x

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I give you my wishes..and, I didna read the comment under you question..I don;t know what to say..

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