Why do am I always so co-dependent on my boyfriend? I hate it because it's throne back in my face later..I want to stop!
Well its been a issue for some time , actually since my first real relatonship. Basically my parents were not really there for me much ..They refused to teach me to drive, so the first chance i got I made sure I had a man who could take me places, like to work , the store, etc. Now I also didnt have female friends much so i depend on my boyfriend mostly or my sister who was usually annoyed, by me or busy! Usually the guys didn't mind but after the relationship progressed within yrs and we had kids, the boyfriend would complain about me not driving, tired of taking me places, limitations to where i can work etc.etc. Now the man im with does alot for me he started off helping me when we first got together, and it was volunteer, i didnt ask , now when we argue, he throws it back in my face how much he provides and what other man would do what he's doing? When i offer to buy something for him or pay for things he refuses like he's to good to except my help! he tries to give it back! If you