Because it lets them feel that they are powerful, when in reality they are terrified of their own weakness.
power and they are insecure
they cannot make mention otherwise and utilize their time like they are supposed to
that's how some people are...going through life's stepping on heads...
What do they gain,,,they them selfs are hurting that why they hurt others,,,it don't make it right its just what happens sometimes,,,Mary
Weak,callous people do those things because they know deep down that they are losers and to make themselves feel better, they treat others like crap. Someday, sometime, they will get what they have been dishing out.
I've been trying to figure that out for years. I think a lot of it might stem from jeolousy, weakness, insecurity, and don't forget the "classic pecking order"! You know? The one where abuse becomes a hand-me-down? Adult hits oldest child, oldest child hits younger child, youngest child kicks dog etc.
I think it's because that individual or individuals are seriously lacking something in their own lives. Limited abilities or talent can make a person try to down grade another person to make themselves look and feel better.
Sad but true, I know from experience. But the good news is, that sooner or later, those same people will try to dig a whole for someone else and wind up digging it for themselves.
Hello I'm using my fiance's blog I'm 27yr. old male. It doesn't seem the guy knows he is hurting your feelings. More than likely he believes that you understand that he is speaking out in frustration and its sarcasm but he believes you already know how he feels. I know it doesn't seem that way to you but question him right after he says something hurtful again as to why he said that and ask does he really feel that way? Don't stop asking no matter how pissed he gets he will be forced to come around.
Worst case scenario is that he feels that way in which case it's a situation you can work out with him. The control aspect is totall BULLSH*T!!!! Look I am a man and we are just as difficult as you women are we just don't care to talk about our feelings or frustrations you have to force it out of us. I dont like it either but even being self aware i'm still just as stubborn. Take it from somebody who actually put thought into their words, besides I don't like married couples breaking up over stupid ****. It's tough love honey, get used to it or no relationship is going to come out right. I know I been through 40+ women already and I had to fight to get this one and it will be an epic battle before I let her go. Fight for your love or live to regret it.