keep searchin......there's a good guy out there....unfortunately they're difficult to find
Most men are fine. This is a ridiculous old wives tale, created most likely either by women who can't feel secure otherwise or by men to make sure their women don't leave them.
I've had men do that to me too. Many people are users and abusers. People play games because they are twisted and unhappy. I agree it is very hard to find a genuine person. Form a relationship with Jesus Christ. He is genuine.
Religion pushing, really? Jesus Christ is not even real, and there are major doubts about there ever being a historical figure he was based on in the first place.
All people use and abuse something to some degree, it is human nature. People will always push your buttons and boundaries as far as you let them push. Some of us are just better at it, than others.
if you don't want to be used, then set limits, have standards that you don't allow anyone else to cross. Don't be so willing to please guys, give them what they tell you they want or what you think they expect. You set the rules. Know a guy on a personal level, as a friend, before you rush into relationships not sure of the kind of guy you're with.
Who wants a serious relationship that early? Most people have no clue who they are and what they want. Can't you just have fun?Why do you even need a relationship?
And you are 16-17?? Far too young to be worrying about these type of things.
It is an immature behavior and most of the guys are like this, you can't do anything, rather then accepting that they are pathetic.
To most, a ploy to get what you want until it doesn't anymore. Then you reassert the ploy upon another victim. Rinse, repeat.
Real relationships take time. You need to know this.
There are some straight males out there who aren't just looking for sex. Some of us are actually looking for more than a good time on a Saturday night.<br />
Don't give up on all of us. :)
if you act like that then they will treat you that way
What's the image you are sending to them?