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Why do guys, even when they KNOW it will upset you, still do it anyway?

i mean why do something no matter how big or small to you, that you know for a fact it will upset us either when we 'find out' ( we always do ) or you tell us. like, adding an ex g/f to myspace, you know thats gonna make us a lil peeved, but you do it anyway...you know that if you ignore us, when you finally do bother to aknowledge us your gonna get an earful, but you do it anyway...there are so many situations and too many to list, id just love to know the reasoning behind it, perhaps you just think we are walk overs and that we will 'get over it' so your willing to get a lil grief cause eventually we will 'forgive' you... if im presented with a situation that i know for a fact will upset him, shocker, but i dont do it -sigh-
Posted 4 months ago
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Most guys are selfish ******** who think "being in love" means having the hots for a woman. This is why I hate the term "love at first sight"; it's a term invented and utilized by shallow people who don't actually know what true love is.

But on the flip side, I consider this half the woman's fault. In my experience - and that of every other guy I've heard from - women tend to be attracted to the dominant ******* types who act all aloof. Then they wonder why their boyfriends are treating them like crap, always asking "why can't I just find a nice guy?", but consistently ignoring us nice and intellectual guys and keeping us in the "friend" zone.
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Posted Jul 10th, 2009 at 8:09PM
If he respects you he won't do it. If he's joking around he might do it unless he sees it'll really annoy you.
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 2:01AM
It’s a common problem in society. A relationship should be a conspiracy to make each other happy.
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Posted Jul 9th, 2009 at 10:50PM
'Cause they really DO think we're stupid.
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Posted Jul 9th, 2009 at 10:57PM
It is part of the game men and women play with each other. Men have a tendency to **** women off just to do and maily to see their reaction. You said it best when you said whether it large or small. Men don't look at it that way at all. They (men) love the attention when their woman is mad even though we say the opposite. So women if you will just play the game the two of you might just get closer.
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Posted Jul 9th, 2009 at 11:04PM
Either a guy has respect for you or he does not. Also depending on the situation is it really worth getting upset over or something you can just not say anything and ignore?
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Posted Jul 10th, 2009 at 12:53AM
They don't care. They only care about themselves. Isn't that obvious.
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Posted Jul 10th, 2009 at 2:43PM
They must think that the truth is better than your feelings.
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