Being an attractive woman at a gym, what's your feeling on a guy approaching you there? My friends tell me women don't like to have guys hit on them at the gym
EP replaced my answer...I guess I can't pose more than one to a question...
I'll have to keep that in mind if I see a woman I would like to get to know better at the gym
He doesn't know you, but he would like a chance to start. You don't know him either, but it seems the pain of your breakup and confusion about it going back and forth for a while is keeping you unwilling to move on with anyone.
I would assume that accepting a date with this guy doesn't mean that you are accepting a marriage proposal from him. But, in your own mind, does accepting a date from someone mean that you are closing the door on the relationship you've just come out of?
He's interested in you. The gym is probably not the best place to get to know someone. I'm assuming you go to work out, not to get into conversations. The only chance the guy has is to invite you out to get to talk with you. It doesn't seem malicious or wrong.
Maybe you should tell him that you feel pretty emotionally messed up from your last relationship and you don't want to become involved at all with anyone for the next several months. It seems he would be understanding and wait for several months to pass before asking again.
Well, I would say in that case that you should tell him, "Thank you so much for inviting me out, but I honestly don't feel interested in a relationship with you. That may not be what you want to hear, but it's how I feel. I'm sorry."
Coz you are leading him, thats not rejection if you gave him ur number and text/call back..... (at least not for him) so you have to be firm about it and give it to him as simple as possible (it'll never happen so please stop bothering me)...or something like that.... and besides if he truely cared for you or was really interested in you (as a lady) he would made an effort to try to understand your pain and be your friend before asking to be ur bf.... I think he is not worth your time....what do u think?
I guess he either is really desperate or might be your long lost creepy fan/stalker.... or could it be that you placed some kind of a spell on him??? hahah jk... am really sorry to hear that you have this kind of guys following you at the gym and keep on pushing u every month or so....just ignore him and eventually he will get bored or feel sorry for himself and stop.
Am sorry to tell you that, but if a guy tells you that he wants to be ur bf or date and stuff... he will never be ur friend even if he said he would.....
Or it could be that he is really a very good judge of character lol.... I know you are right, but some people when they want something they kinda lose their sense or something...
Single guys want to find a pretty girl, they have big egos and believe they can get what they want, the good news is u can always set him up with a good looking girl if u really don't want him I don't believe he is an obsessive stalker, he might be lonelly and want someone pretty to love him, but seriously if it keeps happening u need to be more assirtive refuse to give your number to stranges just say thank you fo the compliment then walk away, or if they are persistant avoid eye contact, sometimes you just have to be outright rude if they dont get the message LEAVE ME ALONE
Some guys cannot take no for an answer
Mandy, you are really pretty and good hearted. You are soft spoken too. You always try to be good with others and that gives an impression to people that you are easy to have. So when he saw you and talked to you, and you gave him your phone number right away (agreed your goody goody nature, can't help). He must have thought there is something going on in you for him. He may have backed off from for various reasons (under the cloud of some circumstances and reasons). And then when those clouds were gone his heart aches to make it up for that (may be his selfish nature or your strong first site attraction - i really felt that when i first saw you in EP.
Hehe men will always be man..
can I have your phone number?....lol
lol......good answer indeed
The guy sees something in you and is trying.The same as how it happens for everyone else.Surely you have been through this before that it should not seem strange to you.
Because some people base who they want to get to know by looks first.You probably have the type of looks he likes.
Maybe he is a glutton for punishment but besides that even when two people look very similar we always have a sense about one over the other.
well that is his style.