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Why do guys lead you on that they like u when in fact they don't at all. Out of the blue dump u when ur into them.

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    CeriB - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by CeriB Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:49PM

    I'm assuming the two of you went out for just a couple of weeks? I don't think it's not about the fact that he didn't like you at all, I just think that he got to know you and you weren't the one he was really looking for (I am not saying there's something wrong with you, but you weren't right for each other).
    I am no Dr. Phil to give you a good answer, but just to tell you that in the future just don't invest your feelings and emotions so fast into the guy. Rather be a bit skeptical and play the field.
    And true that, not only guys do that. Women do it as much as guys and mostly because you try to be nice to the other person and hope that something will change and then you just want to get quickly out.

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  1. Expressyvist - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Expressyvist Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:05PM

    I know and understand. I would have understood better if he was upfront and didn't lead me on expecting. We started as friends despite distance. But I feel so stupid and naive that i buy it. Then received a text message saying " I'm doing this for your own good." I always tell you I'm busy with work so it will be easier for you to move on"..... I never thought excuses is a way of getting rid of someone.... stupid me!!!

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  2. CeriB - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by CeriB Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:08PM

    As a female I understand that. You are definitely not the only one who has been through something like that. i have believed in such fairy tales you can't even start to imagine. You live and you learn and hopefully when the next one will come along you won't get your hopes up so high so fast... then again easier said than done.

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15 Answers to "Why do guys lead you on that they like u when in fact they don't at all. Out of the blue dump u when ur into them."

  1. ruca28 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by ruca28 Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:25PM

    yeah.. why do ONLY guys do that?

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  2. DreamingTaoTiger - male

    Reply by DreamingTaoTiger Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:26PM

    Finally. Some support in saying that to all the "only men" "only women" questions. Keep up the good work. Someone may actually get the point :)

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  3. ruca28 - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by ruca28 Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:31PM

    it's like, the other day I saw one that said "why are all the perverted comments on here always by Americans?" Yeah.. cause everyone knows there's no perverts in Europe.

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  4. Whinny00 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Whinny00 Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:34PM

    Maybe because they are...small, and it makes them feel BIG :)

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  5. denverguy - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by denverguy Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:33PM

    why do woman do the same?

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  6. oddlyenuff - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by oddlyenuff Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:27PM

    This is a trick question if I've ever seen one!!! lol

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  7. onwayout - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by onwayout Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:26PM

    Guys do not come with warning labels. You're with them at your own risk. If they malfunction, you can't get your money back, but you can open, and then close, the door behind them.

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  8. Bitto69 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by Bitto69 Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:26PM

    Try before you buy.

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  9. MissShine - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by MissShine Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:25PM

    It is always bad to expect too much I guess

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  10. lessthanhero - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by lessthanhero Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:25PM

    Because theyre done with the chase.

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  11. scabow - 70+ years old - male

    Reply by scabow Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:29PM

    Yeh, the chase is always the "funnest" part

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  12. ScorpioSeven - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by ScorpioSeven Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:42PM

    Not ALL guys are jerks; just SOME of us are like that.

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  13. Grendel2001 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Grendel2001 Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:41PM

    I can't answer for every reason, but the big dump I made was because I'd been going out with her for a week. On her second visit to my house, she started telling me about pictures she wanted me to buy, and she wanted me to paint her, and then she sprayed her perfume all over my closet full of clothes. Too much, way too fast. I got spooked, and that was it for us. Looking back on it, I wish I'd handled it a bit different, because she was crazy wild in bed.

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  14. Expressyvist - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Expressyvist Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:47PM

    " too much way too fast".... :D

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  15. fakeola - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by fakeola Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:32PM

    Because you are probably selecting for jerks by picking the more desirable type of guy... most women do.

    If it makes you feel any better most men select for jerk women too...

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  16. BlueXian - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by BlueXian Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:27PM

    Lots of people do that, if they're playing the game with multiple people they probably think you are too.

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  17. sumnerkagan - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by sumnerkagan Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:27PM

    too many possible reasons to answer. it would take all year. each case is different.

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  18. pegasuss - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by pegasuss Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:27PM

    Try a real language. The one you use makes no sense. What is it? Spanglish Or Spangtext?

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  19. Expressyvist - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Expressyvist Jan 3rd, 2013 at 1:37PM

    lol. yeah.. doesn't make sense at all ....it's rather hmm... now im laughing...

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