Why do guys make women fall in love with them and then decide they don't want them?
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Posted by Mariner2 Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:09PM
I don't think that it's just men who do that.
I do think it stems from fear of commitment, or giving ones heart away too readily, before you really get to know the other person
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Posted by ambershere Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:09PM
called a true player..knows how to play with ur emotions
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Posted by madasalizard Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:12PM
Because sometimes you just get bored of them. lol
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Reply by FarraheaMW Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:23PM
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Posted by xvxvx Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:11PM
Interest in the challenge, but not the reward. Once finished the challenge, move on to another?
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Reply by emoXkitty Jul 28th, 2012 at 2:38PM
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Posted by CMA1234 Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:07PM
Guys always want what they can not have, but when they have it they don't want it anymore
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Reply by ZZ00ZZ Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:10PM
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Reply by CMA1234 Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:14PM
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Posted by Gink7 Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:07PM
Imagine life as a bakery: you got to try all the cakes to find the one you could eat everyday and not get sick of it..
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Reply by weekender1 Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:17PM
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Reply by Gink7 Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:22PM
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Posted by brighterbyday Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:05PM
After awhile you get hardened and don't fall anymore.
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Posted by bijouxbroussard Aug 31st, 2012 at 9:52AM
Immaturity. A child will long for a toy he sees, beg for it, be on best behaviour, then when he IS given it, play with it for awhile, then toss it aside and look for a new toy. Some men (and women, too) just never get past this M.O. and transfer it to relationships.
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Posted by DaSSRedemption Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:58PM
A guy don't 'make' a woman fall in love and then decide he don't want her anymore. He sometimes just takes advantage of a woman's perceived needs. Other times, he just likes her a lot and then backs off when he starts realizing that "all that glitters isn't gold" and she's only human. It's natural.
Also, some women appear to be needy even without acting that way. That seeming neediness might flatter a guy at first, but neediness is not something guys (or anyone) likes to put up with for long. So, it's another one of those things where it's not so much about the person in front of you but also the person (and needs and quirks) inside of you.
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Posted by Sacron11 Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:51PM
Some do. It's for the feeling of power. And sex, too.
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Posted by bmaninca Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:42PM
I think a lot of things can cause someone to not want to see someone... they dont necessarily go into a relationship saying oh yeah I will dump this person after a couple of months... or at least most dont.
Lets say a guy is getting along great with a girl and then all of a sudden he finds out she did a dog a couple years ago... or perhaps she is an alcoholic. When relationships start out people are on their best behavior and ara guarded.. they have a tendency to be generic to the other person in a lot of ways... so as things program one of the people involved gets into it and starts falling in love and perhaps for the other person it isnt so good. I think you can kind of see it when you hear people talking about relationships when they get started .. things that women tend to hold back on like how many people have you had sex with.. on one hand a question like that is none of someones business but on the other hand a person may not want to date someone that has had a lot of partners. If lets say one person lies and says they have only been with like five people and then later find out they have been with a dozen then they might end it when the person thats had a dozen has totally fallen in love... in that case is the person who has set the limitation really an A_S_S. I mean people have a right to choose who they are involved with and often times we find out that the person just really isnt a good match... or perhaps things get really serious and one of the people involved just is not ready for it.. like perhaps they are going to college or something and dont want to get serious because it would interfere. I guess I kind of think of it as just because a relationship has ended that someone in some way is defective. Sometimes, people are just not compatible with each other.
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Posted by rockingentleman Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:24PM
Once the flavor is gone of the chewing gum you look for another, that's the strategy of many relationships in this world.
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Posted by minatek616 Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:23PM
i don't make girls fall in love with me, my natural animal magnetism just draws them in like crap and flies
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Posted by towhead2 Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:14PM
It's a free will thing. No one has the power to make you fall in love.
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Posted by KC1999basketballexpert Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:12PM
women do the same,i am a guy and i do not do this. i try to make relationships last but no matter how hard i try the girl always ends up dumping me for someone else. gets on my nerves
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Posted by strawberrybootlaces Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:08PM
I think women break more hearts than men do.
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Reply by bijouxbroussard Aug 31st, 2012 at 9:48AM
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Posted by bristow1 Mar 26th, 2012 at 3:07PM
Well u will find that this will often happen, they think they may have found something better, but there the looser eh?..........just be very careful and take care of yourself.
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