Why do guys not want the attractive funloving modist girl ?

Because they were not worth it in the first place

because you are not full of drama and probably have healthy self esteem and self confidence.

there is nothing good about ***** and there dirty **** they put out. Personally it makes me wanna keel over. If you stick with what you have, if you know yourself well enough and have the confidence to keep looking for the one thats right for you, you wont fall. let patients be your guide and your heart be your light, it will show you the way and once you have stumbled apon someone, they will know as well as you will too. i know he is out there. Never stop, it will pay off in the end.

they can be disposed of, no strings etc.

you'll find the right one,... just takes time but it will be worth it :)

because most guys think with their little head.

A lot of them do.
The problem is that a lot of good guys are modest themselves,and the bad boys get in line ahead of them.
Give it time,let them know clearly that you're in it for the long haul,and Mr Right will be along.
What about the guys who want you as another notch on their bedpost or a quick score?
Don't waste your time - keep kicking their sorry butts to the kerb!

Those boys don't have the patience or insight to set boundaries, or wait for something more special and endearing. Luckypickle is right, a lot of guys do think with their little head. Not every man is like that, however. Don't know if there's one place in particular where you find them, though. Doesn't it have something to do with chemistry?

they sound pretty shallow. if all a guy is interested in is a sexual relationship, that wont work out at all. besides, sexual relationships should be built on mutual respect and trust, not with just someone you meet once and dont even know their last name. keep trying, you gotta go through alot of toads before you find your prince^^

Guys have in inability to think long term. If it's not in the immediate future it's difficult for us to wait it out. That being said there are guys out there who will be in for the long haul! Be patient and keep your eyes open and eventually you'll find him!

a lot of guys just want sex and some guys there hearts are attacked to there male parts. i like those kinda girls my self but after a few months i would like a little something. my heart is kinda attached to my male parts.... im kinda a heart broken guy been heart by to many girls to care much if we click we just click. but i cant just have sex with any one i have to realty like them

You need to hang around a different set of guys. Not all guys think below the belt line.

You'll find a few that do want you...I know.

Exactly what I was going to say. Wrong guys! Raise your standards and dont get involved with that type of person.

Because many guys are stupid...

because guys just wants sex before age 30.

Good for you. You'll meet a guy that isn't so shallow.

Brandonsocal speak for yourself, i know lots of men that can think long term. archilliestendon i would also disagree with you.

For the most part i would say everyone else accept those two have useful information.

I would add where are you meeting guys? As been said before dont bother with those guys, please dont drop your standards and start sleeping with these guys, theres probably some guy out there that has a major crush on you and probably would lose interest if you did.

Stick it out. I once went a year without sex because i couldn't find a women i wanted to sleep with but i did and i ended up in a 5 year relationship with her. Not saying you should be like me but hoping that gives you some motivation to stay true to yourself cause good guys are out there they just arent always what pop culture tells us is successful or a portrait of hollywood beauty. Though some are.

Believe me when I say..it's not you...it's them. Don't change, your day will come.

To tell you the truth, same thing happens to me except im a guy. I believe sex should be an act between two lovers and not taken for granted like most do when having one-night stands. Sex has become nothing more than a game of hormones for most of the world instead of it being a sacred act between two lovers. Just stay the way you are and don't change for you sound like the perfect girl. In time you'll find a guy who is looking for a relationship instead of a one-night stand. Just give it time and keep filtering out the bad for you will soon find a guy that will fit every one of your standards. It's the only thing people in our situation can do.