I do not think most people understand the word love.
because they think they have a better chance of getting you in bed. Especially younger guys.... And I agree with denverguy... lack of understanding the word or confusing lust for love. <br />
The woman is pressuring them. Or they really want to **** and will say and or do any thing to do so.
they tell you what u wanna hear. it takes a special guy to really mean it. trick is.. don't say it to him first
Well i would think these guys just want in you' pants honey
Sex. Or to avoid conflict.
They are simply liars. Hence, all girls must learn how to protect themselves.
I don't know, like the other week i said to this guy "I love you" and he said "I love you too", then like 3 days later i said it again he said "stop sayin that it's creapy"<br />
so of coarse i asked him why he said he "loved me before"<br />
and he said" I didn't mean it, oh you thought i did you really are dumb"<br />
so what does it mean and he's been all snarky and awqward with me and is totally ignorin me, is it because we didn't do it afterwards but then when i ask him if he wants too he says no,and i don't know why, can't be looks cuz i've done modelling and he's a photoqraphy student who asked if i'd be his model, and he is smoking hot too but makes me feel like i'm on the bottom of his list because he never has time for me, i don't get it why'd he said it
cause some boys are stupid... just joking - no seriously o.O
Talk about your no brainer questions!<br />
He thinks that will get him some action.
I knew just by the nature of this question that you were young before I checked your profile. As the others are saying, unfortunately men (particularly younger ones under 24...but that's not a hard fast rule), tend to say they love you because they are blinded by testosterone and the need to have easy sex. We say things we don't necessarily mean in the same way that YOU interpret it (note the one user, who said love to men means I really love you but to a woman, she might be thinking "I wanna be with you forever," which most guys are not even remotely thinking at that age.<br />
Sometimes it's HIS fault for saying whatever it takes to keep getting free and easy sex. Sometimes it isn't, cuz he just isn't ready to know what he wants in life and he really doesn't understand all the aspects of "love." Sometimes it can be YOUR fault for continuing the delusion, if, after reading all our feedback, you continue to fool yourself or trust in what they are telling you. TIME and ACTIONS prove love.....words do NOT. Always remember that.
Love should mean I am lucky/fortunate to know you AND I want to spend my life with you<br />
But it is often interchangeable with the words "I want sex" in today's world of shifting morals
this comment comes from the natural selection process and is usually shouted at the point of orgasam (usually from behind) so as to ensure that genetic material is passed on and then the man can get on with the important business of finding another woman to spread more seed with.
men tend to confuse lust for love. and the fact that we know that every woman wants to hear that.
This guy I met, I told him I don't want anything serious, I wanted a friends with benefits kind of thing so obviously he knew he was already going to "get some".. So why did he say he loved me on the first day we hung out? And continue to say it for months and telling me he wants to marry me and then after 6 months phase himself out of my life without any explanation??? Just stopped responding to my texts and I didn't want to keep texting him cuz I didnt wanna seem crazy but really, I would've appreciated him giving me a reason why we stopped seeing each other. Everything was great. Great sex and we didn't see each other too often, like once a week or less. No drama either cuz it wasn't a real relationship. We never fought, not even once. I just hate how he told me he loved me cuz it made me feel more for him and I eventually fell in love with him too, which is something I didn't want because now I'm really hurting:( why couldn't he keep it casual? Why did he lie about loving me?? And why couldn't he give me closure by telling me it's over and the reason why??? Was he just trying to make me crazy?? I would never do this to another person!
my men said he love me but I don't no do he really mean it. so and u tell me yes