Jane 1984 has got it about right...substance addiction is like a killer hold..humans can't compete.

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your picking the wrong type of guy...

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i mean he's is a great guy but I'm not sure if he is worth all the headache.

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People choose substance abuse over a relationship all of the time. It has less to do with the you and more to do with them.

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Drugs are easy to take. Working on Healthy Coping Mechanisms such as Exersize, eating right, quitting smoking, being honest---Takes Work and People sometimes takes the path of least resistance.

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As I am sure you discovered, he is NOT worth the headache. They choose drugs/alcohol/partying over you because they effects of those are predictable. You are not. Guys almost never know what girl they are going to get when they get to their girl. Moods change with your cycles, so do your desires. If you kept a 60 day diary of who you are and were honest with yourself about your feelings (not trying to be anyone you are not either good or bad) you would find out some interesting stuff about yourself and your cycle. BUT guys who are worth something go with what is. They learn to adjust and even enjoy the moods and changes.

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