Women and men are wired differently. Women are more aroused from the sensation of touch; men are much more visually stimulated. It's in the science.
I would disagree on that one. Most of women i've been with love to play with the lights on, but then again I don't sleep with insecure prudes. Sex is fun and nobody's body is perfect. Real women get that.
You'd disagree with science then, not with me. You've been fortunate. You also just called most women out there a bunch of "insecure prudes" so I hope you do better offline than on.
If a guy thinks you body isn't worth seeing maybe you should draw his attention to his own shortcomings!<br />
Everybody's got them not matter how big the ego
Damn good point!
what you don't understand and most women never will, is we (men) love looking at <br />
naked women especially those who are willing to get naked in front of us.<br />
Its a point of pride, even if its a one nighter, men are very visual and seeing the <br />
"spoils" can be very exciting. <br />
If he wants to see you naked, seize the moment and be the seductress he fantasises<br />
about. Being bold for the guy you want to be with will only make you hotter and more<br />
desirable to him.<br />
Or to put it another way "YOU GO GIRL"!
As a guy its good for taking mental snaps..what are mental snaps ? Its the snapshots you take of a girl you're banging (preferably when naked) so you can retrieve from memory and jerk off too (probably during a dry spell or somethng)<br />
You should be flattered they are insisting on taking mental snaps of you :-)
Cuz we're total visual creatures! u know what else men think is so sexy? Confidence! If the guy is there with you, he's totally into you, so be confident and love the skin ur in! :)
I've been married forty years and the two or three times a year the wife and I get around to it, absolute darkness is essential. It makes it easier for each of us to imagine the other is someone else...
Because males are generally really visual.
Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder. Your body may not live up to your own expectation, but he very likely has different expectations. If he has low self-esteem, you could be so far beyond his expectations that he can't believe his luck!<br />
Besides, there is nothing quite like looking deeply into each other's eyes at climax (or nearing climax, since it can be difficult to keep them open once there!) and drinking in the beauty found there, knowing that you're at least partially responsible for it.
Because you (all) have a body worth seeing. You (all) just don't believe it.
I would disagree with you,the visual process during the deed is also great help i think for both male and female<br />
The males enjoy looking at their partners private parts, that builds the energy inside them more, no one can deny this, may be also seeing the woman face and she is twisting in pleasure gives the man more excitement, i think the same goes for the female also<br />
why we should rely on senses only if we can get visual pleasure also<br />
sometimes when you look at **** stuff you get pleasure although you are not using senses, which by the way eyes or seeing is also one of the five senses :)<br />
You might want lights off because your overweight and you feel shy from your man but as for me not all women should be model or physically perfect, little bit overweight might be sexy also<br />
I don't know why but its me feeling that woman is natural not like she is specially made women like TV models
I don't know. The guy I'm with has the lights off but there is still enough light for him to see me. He knows that I'm a little on the shy side about my body, even though he says that I don't have anything to worry about.
If you feel like you're doing them a favor and they're not doing anything for you in return, you're with the wrong guys.
It's all about the visual.... You may think you look bad, but they wouldn't be with you if they felt that was the case. They want to enjoy everything about you, so relax and enjoy....
Some guys might be with whoever they can get if they're desperate or wearing beer goggles. LOL
Yes you are so right. There are those sad desperate guys that are not at all choosy. Desperate, hungry and on the brink of starvation they will deal with the first woman that crosses their path. Shocking eh, lol..
maybe they love the body and you whether you do or not....
Some variety. I like low light sometimes, like the bathroom door open just a crack or the blinds tilted open a bit. I almost said candles but that sounded too froofy.
yes but men are primarily visual creatures
You aren't attracted to women, so you are not qualified to determine if you have a body worth seeing. Most women are self-conscious about their looks, if he didn't like how you looked, you wouldn't be getting naked in the first place...
Every body is erotic and arouses our fantasies.
Men are very much visual creatures....They want to see the lady they are making love to. Part of a man's enjoyment is the unwrapping of his lady maybe not even all the way.<br />
If you don't like the lights on brightly, tower the lights light some candles make it just enough light
to me its the enjoyment of seein my lady lookin down at me doing the thing i do best & & to know she's really loving what i do for her :)