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jlj5298 jlj5298 41-45, F 8 Answers Dec 18, 2013 in Dating & Relationships

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It's never too late. But take a look at the men you have been with? What attracted you to them? My guess is a certain confidence.



But the lesson to learn is the difference between confidence and controlling. There's plenty of us out here who are confident enough to NOT hold you back, but support you to soar.



I'd suggest that you let men know early in your relationship that this is important to you. Controlling men will move on. They mostly want easy targets. Confident men will become even more attracted, because you had the confidence to say "this is what I want."



Good luck. It sucks to have a long run of controlling people in your life. My prayers are with you.

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Thank you you gave great advice I think you are right

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Good luck going forward. I had to restart my life, relationally at 50. It sucked. But I made better choices the second time, and this second chapter I am in is wonderful. I hope the same for you.

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Thank you

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be more selective about the guys you hang out with; get to know them as friends before assuming they would make good lovers.

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Low self-esteem maybe?

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So many people say that could be the reason but I don't feel like that is my problem

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Why else would you go for guys who put you down?

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They don't in the beginning

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Then perhaps you should slow down the process of dating so that you have more knowledge about a guy before dating him.

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You could be right good advice thanks

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Sorry to hear this. Seems you have been unlucky and met the wrong kind of men.

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Then stop trying.

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I might just do that

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you're a bit too old to get nice men

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Why do you say that? Do you think it is because they are all the throw aways from other woman?

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yes

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You could be spot on

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