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Why do i always fall for 'bad boys' and only get a thrill from doing so?

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    qwertyyuiop1 - 36-40 years old

    Posted by qwertyyuiop1 Mar 20th, 2013 at 9:17AM

    because you dont think you deserve to be happy.
    so by choosing someone unstable you dont have to put all of your trust, energy dreams and hope into them and the relationship , because you expect to be let down.

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  1. fallenangel1987 - female

    Reply by fallenangel1987 Mar 20th, 2013 at 9:31AM

    This could be so correct in my situation at the moment :( thank.u x

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  2. qwertyyuiop1

    Reply by qwertyyuiop1 Mar 20th, 2013 at 9:43AM

    sorry to hear that, i know have been there and done that, do yourself a favour make yourself happy, and believe that you can find it (it is out there and you DO deserve it) this is such a hard habit to break, but just for now do yourself a favour make choices that you can invest your time in and see the rewards (start with you first youll always win if you invest good positive time into yourself, no let downs there) learn to understand you deserve to be happy! go and be happy, find nice freinds that will help you along (and ive you a reminder everynow and then whats important) - this took me a while as its easy to get discouraged fall back into old patterns, but i did get away from the jerks and met my lovely husband... and found somewhere i belong and am happy... keep going be brave xx youll get there

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10 Answers to "Why do i always fall for 'bad boys' and only get a thrill from doing so?"

  1. oldfarmguy - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by oldfarmguy Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:31AM

    Guess ya like humiliation and heartbreak

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  2. fallenangel1987 - female

    Reply by fallenangel1987 Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:35AM

    No i dont like it at all

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  3. bombyou - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by bombyou Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:44AM

    Well its in your destiny so start liking it.

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  4. mandypandi - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by mandypandi Mar 20th, 2013 at 10:16AM

    Because you are young and do not know what you want yet. Maybe you have been heart broken and are done with relationships for a while until your heart heals? Or you are not very secure with yourself right now because of pat experiences. Bad boys are exciting and right now you just want exciting because it makes you happy and its safe if you dont put your heart in it. Or maybe thats just your type.

    As for me, I have never been attracted to the bad boys I always knew what I wanted. I am very mature for my age. Yet, I just broke up with my boyfriend of 10 months and it hurts. Even though I am the one who broke it off, it hurts and I am heart broken. I now find myself not interested in any guys at all. I have rejected a good handful of nice guys that wanted relationships with me...and idk y. I just dont feel anything for them. Yet, there is this cute guy in my anatomy class. Him and I are good friends. I know he thinks Im cute but we are just friends because I know he is a bad boy. I have never fallen for one...but now I find myself interested in him even though i know we are not meant to be....heart break im guessing?

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  5. jason1944 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by jason1944 Mar 20th, 2013 at 9:23AM

    do u like the way treat u darling? ur really brave!

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  6. fallenangel1987 - female

    Reply by fallenangel1987 Mar 20th, 2013 at 9:30AM

    I dont know im confused but thank u

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  7. Hiatt1967 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Hiatt1967 Mar 20th, 2013 at 9:05AM

    Because your mommy did not spank you for it the very first time it happened.

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  8. fallenangel1987 - female

    Reply by fallenangel1987 Mar 20th, 2013 at 9:16AM

    Lol oo believe me i got in enuf trouble first time it happend i should be put off by now lol

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  9. Kimmer112065 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Kimmer112065 Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:38AM

    You enjoy wasting your time? You are afraid of a real relationship? List could be endless.

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  10. fallenangel1987 - female

    Reply by fallenangel1987 Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:41AM

    I dont enjoy wasting time and i dont think im afraid of real relationship because deep down i always want to b with that person i just fall for 'wrong type'

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  11. Kimmer112065 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by Kimmer112065 Mar 20th, 2013 at 9:17AM

    Most likely you won't change the type you pick until you truly get fed up with that particular type. But good luck to you.

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  12. Isntitironic - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Isntitironic Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:32AM

    It's a game. I play it too... never works out well.

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  13. fallenangel1987 - female

    Reply by fallenangel1987 Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:34AM

    I know think we just hope to be the one to change their ways? :/

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  14. Isntitironic - female

    Reply by Isntitironic Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:44AM

    Yep, I've tried and failed miserably...

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  15. scotvt - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by scotvt Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:32AM

    Some folks are just drawn to the adrenaline

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  16. fallenangel1987 - female

    Reply by fallenangel1987 Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:34AM

    Not intentianly though

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  17. scotvt - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by scotvt Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:36AM

    Sometimes...when we are drawn to unhealthy things...like drugs, or driving wayyyy too fast or anything that causes us damage....we should choose to NOT follow our instincts

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  18. RickinOKC - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by RickinOKC Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:30AM

    You have yet to meet me!!!!

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  19. fallenangel1987 - female

    Reply by fallenangel1987 Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:31AM

    Lol

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  20. cpgnatly - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by cpgnatly Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:29AM

    Same reason people like to jump out of planes or off the edge of bridges. It's an adrenaline addiction.

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  21. fallenangel1987 - female

    Reply by fallenangel1987 Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:32AM

    Think your right..need to snap out of it tho.or il b single forever

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  22. cpgnatly - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by cpgnatly Mar 20th, 2013 at 8:33AM

    Not true. You need to snap out of it or you'll end up with the wrong guy.

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