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ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months already, ive never cheated on him or even thought about cheating on him and i know he feels the same. But i keep having dreams about other guys wich happpen to be friends of mine that i think are attractive, i dont care for them but i know if i was single i would have interest in them. Anyway, in nmy dreams i dont do anything with them, but they are there and i have feelings for them but i feel guilty (in my dream) because i have a boyfriend. Wierd, why?
iLean iLean 18-21, F 6 Answers Jun 29, 2009

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Dreams can be a way our minds work out conflicts, and discover the "what ifs" of life. Maybe your mind is dealing with the "what if" I had someone else, what would that be like? You are really very young to be pinning down a single guy for a long term, and you are at the prime for exploring what being with different guys might be like. Seems like a perfectly natural kind of dream to be having. Just having a boyfriend or even a husband doesn't stop us from mentally exploring sexual attraction. Guys do it too, but maybe everyone doesn't remember their dreams when they wake up.

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Nothing wrong with dreaming, just like theres nothing wrong with looking, which you have also been doing ;p

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this is probably normal....i havea boyfriend too and i still have a little feeling for this other guy that I used to like and i know is in deep love with me...if you still have issues with it, talk to your mom and see if she has had this problem before. :)

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It's not weird, and I can tell from you're writing, your young. That's just gonna happen dear............C

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Your dreams don't mean anything,they're just dreams, just keep living life normally.

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Most likely is that you might like that other guy. But anyways dont tell your bf about that dream

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