Why do I feel stuck in 1 spot? People expect me 2 be over it, but I can't!!! Why can't I move on?

To let go is so hard.
People are used to grab and hold what they want to have, even if it's just an impossible dream, it seems easy and comfortable to live this way. We want to hold what is familiar to us, it seems to give us security. That's human, and it's a source of suffering. Clench your fist and you will hold nothing, open your hands and you will hold the world. At first, it's frightening to live without this security, without expectation, hope and what's familiar. But it can be an exiting adventure to jump into the unknown, we are so afraid of.
To live in the past is to live in what we already know. But it's static, there is no movement, no improvement. No movement is like death. To really live needs courage. But it's worth it, to be in the here and now.

Sounds like a state of mind...To alter that you need...freedom from drugs...good books....proper health...especially nutrition...good influences such as friends or family,or simply just people in general...Get some sun...breathing exercises...boot camp!!...Its a tough one.Trouble is i know exactly what you mean..Pretty sure its stress and attitude related.

you are obviously not ready to move on. who cares what people expect of you - when you are ready to move on you will. that means, when you are ready to accept whatever happened you will move on then.

an unresolved issue? or need a kick in the bum?

Don't know what you are trying to get over but some things just take more time than others. Be good to yourself, and give yourself a break.

You choose not to move on what do expect of yourself you can and you will when you choose to