you really need to get help for this and the fact that it scares you is a very good thing. it could be tied to your past or to some mental disorder. either way please don't give into that as having been on the recieving end of this..it is far more frightening to her. please get help.
You may be a sadomasochist. Not that abnormal, though still quite taboo as seen by the comments here :) There are ways to fulfill your desires without risk of injury to your sexual partner (assuming she is a willing participant in everything of course. If she's not, you're out of luck dude) Do your homework, talk to others who are experienced, and please, be careful.
Dude, that is sick. You need to get some help. Kudos, though, for having the courage to post the question.
GET OFF?......YOU NEED HELP!.................NOW!!!!!
Okay, you're NOT SICK.
You just have a slightly more uncommon fetish. Some people like to choke others, some like to be choked. It's not weird, just different.
Hey, if she's okay with it, go for it! If she's not, don't, especially if you think you might hurt her. Let her know that it's something you think about (if she doesn't know already). Hopefully she understands, and if she asks you not to do it, refrain, despite your urges.
You sound like you are at least responsible enough to not do anything that extreme without her consent. Best of luck.
Choke your own **** you sick ****
Because you are a SICK M.F. Get help fast!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GET HELP BEFORE YOU HURT HER SERIOUSLY! If it were to happen, then it would be too late to take preventative action and you might lose her...permanently, as in death. Is that risk worth delaying help?
clumsy57 have you considered that safety words are difficult when ones being choked. lol, though clumsy57 is right safety actions help.
You need to be confident in yourself that you have the self control to not go beyond whats reasonable for the circumstance. THere is nothing wrong with it if its consentual. Though it is one of those things where you do need to practice self control in a difficult time and place to practice self control as you dont want to be like no wait just a little longer and end up not hurting her but killing her.
Never spring it on someone.
Thats my two sense.
Sounds fun if you ask me. Don't hurt her though, that would not be kool! :)
"YOH" .... That is voice screaming for HELP !! ... most serial killers gets off at choking someone .... TO DEATH !! listen boet ... best you go to your Police Station and speak to victims criminal investigator to get a name of a psychologist who deals with this type of behavior .. or soon we'll see MIKE as just another death row inmate ....
For the rest of those Sadistic peeps out there who finds this normal ... best you do the same .....
MY GAWD WHAT IS THIS WORLD COMING TO?????
Just make sure you have a safe word and don't do this when either of you are inebriated... oh and stay out of Thailand.