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Why do I have dreams my boyfriend is cheating on me every night , and Im always looking for him?

Why do I have dreams about my boyfriend cheating on me every night, now the dreams are about him sleeping with my bestfriend... Does this mean we need space? It's really starting to bother me emotionally. And when I try to talk to him about these dreams.. he thinks I'm crazy. Can anyone give me some advice?????
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Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 3:01PM
Your brain needs time off...stop thinking about it ( if there is no reason ) and let it go...you are driving yourself crazy...it is just a dream....
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Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 2:43PM
These are dreams, rather than anything prophetic. But, they suggest anxiety about a possible relationship between your BF and friend. Have you sensed anything going on or do you just find trusting difficult?
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Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 2:46PM
Dreams are funny in that they hardly ever are exactly what they are. just as Literaturegirl suggested. My take on it would be something a little different. I in fact would suggest that your sub councious is trying to keep you from ending your relationship with your best friend. It is suggesting that your boyfriend is coming in the way between the two of you. And that you'll end up where she is nothing more then competition rather then a best friend.
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Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 2:48PM
It's either your just feeling insecure OR it is your intuition telling you that you are right! If unsure, then maybe check his cell phone from time to time. Have you asked your bestfriend anything? You don't have to be rude when you ask her though, just in case there is nothing going on.
You can also try going out alone with her one weekend and talk. Then if you go to a movie or a club, call your boyfriend to meet up. When he shows up leave them together and see if they act differently. You have to stay distant but close enough to see anything. I'm only suggesting this if you are really concerned. Don't ever follow him because it could be grounds for stalking.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 3:40PM
I use to have the same dream, I always dreamt my Fiance was cheating on me or meeting a new girl or having sex with a friend of mine. It is an ugly feeling I was always dreaming these type of dreams because I had major trust issues with him. You need to talk to him about this and figure out if you can learn to trust him or move on. We all need to have trust if we want our relationships to work.
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