You are afraid of rejection further down the line. If you control the emotions then you're safe. If you let other people in, you can't control the situation anymore.

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You over-analyse everything turtle man,that comes through in almost all your questions and answers.Now that is,in many ways,a smart way to approach life - but does not always help when it comes to matters of the heart..

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yeah

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Letting people get close means you allow them to hurt you. So, it is a way of avoiding -more- pain.

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I suspect this sharper awareness and focus has bought other factors to mind. it is however a guess

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Well if you'd like to know, your not the only one with this problem. :)

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no, i know this, and it's one of the things that gives me the strength to endure and evolve

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thank you

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It's safer that way. Don't let anyone get close and no one can rip your heart out ;-)

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i'm laughing but i can't help feeling that might be a bad sign

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