Why do i not like sympathy from other people? u can call me fat etc but if you tell me "i feel with you" i get annoyed?
14 Answers to "Why do i not like sympathy from other people? u can call me fat etc but if you tell me "i feel with you" i get annoyed?"
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I feel your pain.
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:P
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Do you have trust and abandonment issues?
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Again this is EP, the home of stupid questions.
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Nah its just sometimes where i dont want to hear it people tell me it and i get so confused inside my head that i get mad and think its strange that people tell me it at certain situations :) in real life, i dont know what that tells about me
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because nobody else can feel what you feel.
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cause people for the most part are whiny s acks of s hit........just sayin
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I agree - one of the most annoying phrases I have hear over the years is, "Yeah, yeah, I hear you", urgthh, that irritates the **** out of me - patronising cun*s.
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how about a back rub?
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You have a problem with trust not what is being said but whether you think its sincere.
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because it is impossible for anyone to know how you really feel. They can say that they can imagine how you feel or that maybe they have had similar problems, but saying that they feel the same as you is just an outright lie, because what if it bothers you more than it bothers them? How can they ever know.
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Why dont they just read my mind?
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They are not on your level yet.
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You dislike being patronized. You doubt its sincerity or merit.
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Because they are obscuring what you feel is your identity. If they feel it too, you aren't as unique.
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Quit comparing yourself to other people. Ever.
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Ditto.
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I find it quite condescending.
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yeah i feel the same way. (i dont know if your refering to yourself being told that or you saying it) heh
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When people say it to me :P
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by notthinginking Dec 17th, 2012 at 3:50PM
Sypathy doesn't salve anything. I hate it too. don't listen to psycho analysis on this...there is nothing wrong with you!
I don't like sympathy because it doesn't get me anywhere, I don't want people to panda over me, I would rather be understood and someone tell me straight so I can get another perspective.
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Reply by DragonKillerman Dec 17th, 2012 at 3:52PM
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