Because sexual fidelity is no more an indicator of love than liking sports.<br />
It's a brainwash. A cultural mind virus that goes against our true nature.<br />
It has its roots in property, and in an approach to human relationships that defines people as property and women especially as chattel.<br />
We're outgrowing it, but we've still got a long way to go.
Sympathy junkie.....perhaps?......it isn't uncommon in females with a motherly vibe....
tbecause you are looking back, **** him/her... go ahead!