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Why do i....?

always give the people who hurt me the most
the benifite of the doubt and allow them back in my life
time after time after time after time.

boys, girls, everyone.

if she fucked me over, shes my bestfriend.
just so she can do it again

If he crushed me and broke my heart, he's the only only boy i want to be with
and i'm in love.

what the fuck is wrong with me?
forserious.

ughhh.
but i love them unconditionaly no matter what.
like i said, if i make a promise, i keep it.

i need someone to come along and change all that.
yes i do, i think i diserve it too
because i've come a long way from the kristin i use to be.

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its normal.. im the same way.. you have a really good heart u should be proud of.. but u should learn as animal instinct not to really trust or rely on these people by past experiences.. yea give em incoditionally friendship but dont let em too close to ur heart because they will hurt him.. and u also need to learn to be strong.. i think ur very emotional just like me.. but experiences like this will make u a stronger adult so cheer up.. find some people who worth trusting and talking to and ull find u dont need these evil people :)

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Other 8 Answers to Why do i....?

tarquino	Posted Oct 1st, 2009 at 1:19PM Just become like me, old, bitter, cynical, dried up and sour as a p1ss and vinegar cocktail. It's the only way to find happiness, just ask my 2 best friends - my dog and computer. Rated: +2Vote for this!
MrEnglish	Posted Oct 1st, 2009 at 1:19PM Carry on being you, just don't jump back in so quick, make them come back to you, if they don't, are they worth it? You sound like a kind young lady, most lightly sensitive to life, that is not a bad thing, its a great quality however you are going to get a few knocks for being like that if you leave yourself open for others to vent life s anger on you. Take a few steps back, look at what is happening, judge it, are they worth it really? Learn to love yourself more, be kind to yourself first. Take care, be you. Rated: +1Vote for this!
BoxingBro	Posted Oct 1st, 2009 at 1:14PM cool Rated: +1Vote for this!
ecpc	Posted Oct 1st, 2009 at 1:14PM You sound nice....but yair ...be careful not to be too nice,..cos tat will cause te universe to retain balance by increasing the bad...Be nice to yourself as well is i guess what i mean...Like you say...you deserve it:) Rated: +1Vote for this!
atasteforsufferin g	Posted Oct 1st, 2009 at 1:14PM unconditional love works both ways not just one if they aren't loving you back drop them like a bad habit Rated: +1Vote for this!
cuterose	Posted Oct 1st, 2009 at 1:18PM Don`t change! Rated: +1Vote for this!
midlifemadness	Posted Oct 1st, 2009 at 1:22PM you sound like you have a very kind and compassion heart and spirit. That is a wonderful thing... but if the people you are around don't appreciate it, then maybe they aren't truly great, close friends. You can hang with them, but don't expect anything great. Friendship is supposed to be a two way street. If they take and backstab and use you, and never find themselves being kind and caring towards you, what's the point of being friends with them? Friendship that is a lot of work and the work is only coming from one side, isn't worth trying or crying over!! hugs to you!!!! Rated: +1Vote for this!
RighteousGirl	Posted Oct 1st, 2009 at 1:28PM Low self esteem. You do not need to accept that treatment. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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