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Why do many women spend more time complaining about their men instead of appreciating them?

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  1. Theshepherdess - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Theshepherdess Feb 10th, 2012 at 8:34PM

    It's one of the differences in our ways of communicating. Men are not as verbal as woman but they get their point across without speaking. They too lose their appreciation for their women by withholding compliments, smiles, and just enjoying their partner as they did at one time in the relationship. Women start to complain about everything else in their relationship without realizing what really is going on inside them. They are looking for validation in the relationship, as the man is too, neither knows how to say it. One of the biggest problems women have is the demasculination of their mate. Without knowing what she is doing, she can bring a relationship to a "screeching halt". We should all learn to be considerate of each other despite our differences.

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  2. hishelper - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by hishelper Mar 29th, 2012 at 2:29PM

    Because women find it easier to blame issues on men, rather than looking at what they can do differently. If women treat men the way a man should be treated, then there will be no complaing and lots of love and appriciation for eachother. just my 2 cents..

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  3. Classicality7 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Classicality7 Feb 10th, 2012 at 7:09PM

    Sometimes it's a woman's negative mindset and sometimes it's that there just isn't that much to appreciate.

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  4. luvlymi - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by luvlymi Feb 10th, 2012 at 7:12PM

    Probably the same reason people complain in general....it takes effort and choice to look for the good ....especially if there isn't much there to focus on.
    Many times women think men should think and act exactly like them...men are different ladies....no matter what the social movements tell you.

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  5. deeken - 36-40 years old

    Reply by deeken Feb 10th, 2012 at 7:14PM

    What I see is that the expect things and never say thank you. But are quick to rip into you when you do something they don't like. Whole thing turns me off.

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  6. holywren - 51-55 years old

    Posted by holywren Feb 10th, 2012 at 7:10PM

    Complaining is heard by all ...appreciating is very private ;-} boys....

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  7. tassiedave66 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by tassiedave66 Feb 10th, 2012 at 7:08PM

    id like to know as well lol

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