Why do men prefer that chat function verses the message function on here? Is there really that much of a difference?
The chat function is not very good here, so I usually have it off. I prefer the messages as I can think out my answers and give it the time and consideration it needs. But men seem to prefer chat. So not getting the difference, to me they are both the same. I have also noticed that the messages are more controlled then in chat.
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Posted by southernheat Jun 1st, 2011 at 9:17PM
and you have it figured out, the guys dont much like to wait on stuff lol
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Reply by snowberry75 Jun 1st, 2011 at 8:47PM
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Posted by marissapillow Nov 7th, 2012 at 4:33AM
Wham bam thank you mam.
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Posted by Lovetobebare Sep 16th, 2011 at 9:44AM
Me too....
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Posted by auspicious Aug 26th, 2011 at 5:54PM
Actually I used to think the Meebo was better than the message function. But now I am not so sure. When I am chatting my spelling sinks to the level of a first grader, because I am trying to type so fast. While the message function let's me take my time and organize my thoughts better. And improves my spelling.
But the chat function is fun because it feels more like real time, so If whoever I am chatting with understands that my spelling is going to be bad, then chatting is more fun. It depends on the purpose and the friend that you are communicating with.
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Posted by solowing Jun 2nd, 2011 at 1:01AM
chat is faster, instant gratification
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Posted by BennDover Jun 1st, 2011 at 10:34PM
Hey that being said, Would you like to chat with me? lol just kidding. Well since I'm a man I can give you a lot better insight than these women who think they know men. No just kidding again ladies. Seriously , I don't feel any closer to anybody using the chat or the message function. It doesn't matter to me which one is used.
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Reply by snowberry75 Jun 1st, 2011 at 10:41PM
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Posted by newmorning Jun 1st, 2011 at 10:28PM
I think you are right......... messages seem to have to be thought out first.... but chatting lets you say what comes right out of you mind
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Posted by mysteriousfeelings Jun 1st, 2011 at 9:54PM
my chat does not work so i will never have this issue
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Posted by fungirlmmm Jun 1st, 2011 at 9:05PM
I don't want to be "THAT CLOSE" to anyone other than those I am already close to at this point but I don't use chat because it hoses up my phone. Men ask me all the time why i am not on there. I have started telling them because my boyfriend forbids it. They usually leave me alone after that. :)
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Reply by snowberry75 Jun 1st, 2011 at 9:13PM
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Posted by Tsunami3 Jun 1st, 2011 at 8:59PM
The only real difference I see is that you have to keep refreshing to see when you get a message in your inbox, but the chat messages just pop up when they come in.
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Posted by Dave748 Jun 1st, 2011 at 8:55PM
I agree with you and I prefer the message function.
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Reply by snowberry75 Jun 1st, 2011 at 9:05PM
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Posted by TheMadLady Jun 1st, 2011 at 8:47PM
Hmm how to put this....
It makes a guy feel closer to ya ;-) . The messages don't feel as "live" once they are sent. Messages work just as well as chat to me too; I'm with ya there, but apparently not to some men here. Responses in chat are instant and he can imagine your voice more readily and who knows what else. Okay, I'll stop there.
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Reply by snowberry75 Jun 1st, 2011 at 9:02PM
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