i believe they go 2 an Academy where they are taught to be meanspirited wenches...then they act surprised when their husband is sleeping with their secretary years later...lol
Yeah, the academy of "dating men" !!!!
TV, Movies and romance novels. This type of media has ruined both men and women's perspectives on the opposite sex. We don't walk around the house with open shirts and flowing hair, and they don't wear ripped short-shorts and ***-tops.
You've done a survey, have you ? What do you know about "most" American women ?
Most is an uneducated guess, I take it. Some women of all nationalities are simply spoiled from the moment of their birth, it is a mental disorder.
If it's true (and I haven't looked at stats), then it's because of how media portrays romance. In almost every 'romance' movie, the man is supposed to pay for everything, often holds the only job, takes care of the woman, pay endless compliments, takes all the romantic initiative (ie, giving her flowers), and plans everything in a fairytale-esque romantic way. If the woman is independent in movies, she also abuses men for seemingly no reason, calls them pigs, etc. In reality, it's easily possible to be independent and strong without hating men.<br />
Nobody is that perfect. But females are socialized to believe it, and although most people are too smart to be indoctrinated like that (I hope), there's a definite margin of women who seem to believe in that vision of an 'ideal man.'<br />
it's not just females though. Men are socialized by the media to believe that, in turn, the woman is supposed to be gentle and agree to whatever the guy says. Movies, as stated, show independent females as men-haters. Small wonder that many guys end up being misogynistic. Of course, that doesn't make it right.<br />
People get raised into this vicious cycle, and you end up with prejudice on both sides. The difference is that a female's prejudice according to society should be for a man to always do everything. A man's prejudice according to society, in turn, is to be controlling.
men have been socialized 2 be the providers, the rescuers, and the dumping ground for male bashing...if you want respect, you have 2 show respect")
i actually enjoy it when a woman is feminine...makes a guy want 2 protect and take of her...but then again maybe i'm reminiscing about the 50's and the tv show, Happy Days...lol:)
i want to know this one
Why do most people on the internet make ba<x>seless generalizations that really serve as a way of projecting their anger at themselves on outside sources?
what makes you think its just american woman?
Why do you feel the need to generalize American women?
Extreme feminism, portrayal of men in media, sense of entitlement.
Well this question has a lot of dimensions to it. First of all men and women see thing differently, because we are wired different. Second, what is the man doing or not doing. Third, how did you end up with a wife that treats you bad. I am a firm believer that in a relationship al parties have fault in how things go.
Have to keep them on their toes...seriously though idk but that it could be a reason :/
I think you have it reversed!
Because the husband is an idiot for being good to them in the first place. Women want to be beat, used and abused. Deal with it.
I met a guy like you...told me all I needed was a good man, He grabbed my ***. I cracked him in the teeth with a padlock on the end of a bandana....He treats women nicer now.
He was weak, you did well.
Because they can and many are femboys now.
Most people Take a Good Spouse for GRANTED, Human nature. :)
because most men need bosses
How do you know they're good to wives? Oh yeah, you've been living with every married couples in the US. Lol, mind your own biz wax!