Theres a book: "He's just not that into you". Oprah pushed it and they made a so-so movie as well. But read the book.
Having said that, some men play with women the way cats play with mice. These are usually men with something going for them, and they know it. These guys are know by the collective name of "ar$eholes". They upset women and ruin the chances for good men who might treat you much better. The women particularly vulnerable to these guys are the ones who wait to be approached by a male. Because the males that wiill behave the worst tend to be most confident around women. The shy guy who hangs back would generally treat you much better and be a better long term bet. And lets face it, most women really would prefer a long term prospect. So consider approaching a shy guy and see how that works for you.
Thats just sexist , ive been jerked off by lots of ladies over the years.
Believe it or not some men are more drama queen than women. They might not do it openly in public however in private they could be little *******.
I agree the most confident guy who aproaches you and flatters you most of the time but not all the time is the jerk the shuy guy wil treat you better hands down but how many of us go for the shuy guy ? Its mad the way it works I had a realy bad experience with a guy recently he was in the army and had some him not many times anyway I kept in touich through letters internet and sent boxes of food parcels to him at first I weren't that botherd about him because I had an idea he was a a bit of a pla