Why do most people who talk to me either stop talking to me later or never seem interested?
how do i make that connection? even if there feels a connection, noone comes back to talk first to me. im too nice and i talk a lot, even when not needed, when i feel a connection, but they dont seem to be interested anyway. should i back off and maintain a distance right from the start? i donot know what to do. ive not interacted much with people growing up, so i donot know where im going wrong.
people either think im quiet or too clingy, but they dont seem to feel anything magnetic about me. infact, they think im weak or an easily intimidated person. i come across as a soft person. maybe, i shouldnt open myself up that much and should try to let friendship grow naturally by being the quiet myself that i really am. infact, i love keeping distance.