Either he is insecure or he is guilty.
One mind here.
There IS a saying, "He who checks under beds, has hidden there before..." But even if he isn't guilty and it's just a case of extreme insecurity, can you deal with the mistrust implied ? Assuming you haven't given him a reason not to trust you, can you accept constantly having to walk on eggshells ?
Couldn't have said it better myself.
Its a possibility. He could just be highly insecure, but I found from experience that the accuser is usually the doer. My ex-wife would constantly "worry" that Id cheat on her. She even threatened me with what would happen if I ever did. Turns out she was the one who was doing all the cheating. Follow your instincts on this one....is he insecure or is he guilty?
At least one of you is guilty, my guess is that both are!<br />
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Possibly, or you are acting in a suspicious manner and he's checking you. Simply ask if he is cheating and see how defensive he gets and how he reacts.