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PrincessCadance PrincessCadance 22-25, F 12 Answers Dec 25, 2013 in Community

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In times like this, it's sometimes best to just focus on the work and remember that you're getting a paycheck.

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I'd like that, unfortunately a lot if it requires planning and team collaboration. It's so hard to work in a group with people who all go out drinking afterward and don't invite you

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Oh geez, I know! It's a tough situation. At some point it will get better.

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Maybe you should transfer from the dairy to the meat packing department, pigorkers are friendlier.

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Thanks for making me smile!

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Maybe it has something to do with you being a sexual deviant. Most people don't like that in a person....

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They have no idea about all that. I'm a pretty quiet introverted person

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Bullying is commonplace among coworkers. Who is the target of gossip or being ostracized can vary over time. What you describe is likely to be real, and not imagined, because it does happen.

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Thanks for the reassurance. Why would they pick me? I haven't done anything mean to anyone.

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Because they hate their jobs; they are bored; they are unchallenged; they are unhappy both at home and at work.

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Any advice in how to get them to cease fire ? Like, anything I can do or say

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Nothing that comes to mind. You did nothing to cause their issues. That makes it hard for you to do anything to remedy it.

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treat people as they treat u .. if they are nice to u , be nice , if they are not , be worst than them :)

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I don't think I have the heart to treat them poorly... Do you really think that would work or just make them dislike me more?

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Most of my work life is head down and do work, thats usualy the best tactic, I dont care If people like or dont at work, as long as I do my job and get paid thats work

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My job required teamwork and group planning. Plus we work 10 people in one room. It's tight

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Ahhhh I can see thats tough if your stuck together :/ I would still just do what was requiered of me and try not to stress about being liked. I'm sure if you dont your likeble self will shine through. If you think to much it might show negativity and people sense that :) hope I helped

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Why do you need them to like you? Just do your work.

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Work is work, you don't have to like them, and they don't have to like you. Just answer to the management.

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Management wants us to collaborate

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what do you do?

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Then collaborate with them to work on projects... :)

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be nice, blend in. or just do what i do, make them fear you.

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I don't think they'll fear me lol. I'm quite nice. I always greet everyone by name and I've even brought cookies twice. Am I too nice?

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no, don't think so. no idea why you're not blending in. maybe you don't smile enough?

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You're cute haha

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I've been told my regular thinking face is kind of sad...I'll try to smile more. Hard to smile for people who ostracize you though

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make them fear you instead. soon *they* will be smiling at you, hoping you don't crush them underfoot.

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oh yeah, change the sad face to an angry face

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Because you're a newbie. You sound like my sister

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I am new to my job but not the newest. 2 people started after me and everyone likes and includes them.

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I have zero work experience, but maybe you're kinda introverted?

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I'm totally introverted. But I still want to be liked

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Yeah that's the problem. When you don't open up, people think you're stuck up and have secrets to hide

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What makes you think they don't like you.

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They single me out, talk over me and cut me off, and throw big parties together to which I'm never invited. If anyone leave trash out they put it on my table and tell me to throw it away, even though it's not mine.

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You have to sleep around.

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Married :/

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You have a lucky hubby. :o)

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