Why do my kids fathers care for their other kids, but not mine?

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If in your question you mean to say that you have multiple kids, with multiple fathers. I would say, with this deducing, that the reasons your kids' fathers' care for their other kids more because A they are married to their other kids' mothers or B if you have multiple kids with multiple fathers, they are are not exactly the most legitimate of kids.

Not to say I am cold hearted and I wouldnt take care of my child regardless of who the mother is, but I dont know how much care i could show if to them if i also was married with other children. Ones that I live with, care for daily, so on and so forth.

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geenpunchbuggie	Posted May 27th, 2009 at 9:44AM for this reason (among others), we MUST take care of ourselves, practice birth control and be VERY discriminatory about whom we cavort with. cut your losses now and be more careful in the future. Rated: +2Vote for this!
spawn240509	Posted May 27th, 2009 at 4:09AM Hi there, i wud love all my kids just as equal. Rated: +1Vote for this!
memoryofyou	Posted May 27th, 2009 at 5:29AM This is a very heartbreaking question! I feel for you! Children are innocent and should be loved and protected, and fathers and mothers should remember that when their kids are all grown up, the hurt will be there in their questions of (Why?) Will they ever forgive us for the mistakes that we make as parents? Rated: +1Vote for this!
nippawus	Posted May 27th, 2009 at 9:14AM I'm sorry to hear such a thing but if I had to take a guess I would say either he doesn't want to associate himself with you and the kids are suffering for it or he doesn't believe their his and feels like he's not responsible for them or your not giving him a chance to show love to the kids before you start attacking him over what's really bothering him causing him to show only anger towards you first and the things you love most second again I am sorry to hear such a thing Rated: +1Vote for this!
unicorn59	Posted May 27th, 2009 at 10:14AM Because he's a jerk....if they are his kids, no matter who the mother is, no matter if he lives with them or not, no matter what....he should care for them.... Rated: +1Vote for this!

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