Seams to me they don't trust you.
so they won't find ruins where your house used to be xP
Most of the time it's just putting the responsibility of the baby on someone else and doing what they want to do. Raising a kid is an investment . Now after a few years they wonder, what happened? "We did everything for him, then why is he such a brat?".
Because you obviously still act like a little kid. Lmfao