my wingman used to look like a thug (not saying your bf does) but he was really nice but the trouble he used to attract was unbelievable i would spend all my time defusing fights
i know i used to feel sorry for my mate, its only now we are older and changed the places we go that it doesnt happen..
because people judge books by covers all too frequently.
I get it a lot too and the funny thing is if they knew me they would realise I am the sort of person to give someone the shirt off my back if they had a need greater than I. I do wish people would scratch a little beyond the surface sometimes without being so judgemental. It get's tiresome sometimes! lol