Cause they just wan attention
They just want the attention. Or, they just want to vocalize it. You know, just let it out.
Because your definition of help and their definition differs.
I know right?
I think they feel like they are being an imposition, like they are causing too much trouble but want the help too, just confused.
I do it too, change my mind right at the last second
because they dont think it really applies to them