It is not love. Love is not possessive. Possession is ownership. You possess a car or a house or a chair, not a living being and certainly not a partner.
What kind of love do you talk about. Love is to be happy for other's happiness. And, being possessive, you kill happiness. Or do you only care about your happiness?
uh... no it isnt.
I guess possessiveness is like salt...I need some to feel adequately desired but too much destroys the relationship. I don't want to spend all my time reassuring someone.
You have much to learn....
Being possessive isn't a sign of love, it's a sign of insecurity and need for control. People you love are still people, they are not your possessions. Trust is a sign of love. If you trust the ones you love to stay by your side without you chaining them, you show them that you can appreciate them as people, not in relation to you.
'cause it's suffocating, especially to a free spirit like me
True but some people get crazy possessive... not good!
No one wants to be Smothered.
or owned. owning a person is not loving them.
It can be overbearing and annoying.
Possessiveness is a truly dreadful trait. It is insidious and poisons relationships. Love and possessiveness are almost antithetical.
possessiveness sometimes turns into obsession and people try to ob
Shows love to me. If your lover says your mine and no one else's its kinda hot.
Not at all, if someone's heart desires you, you already possess them. Believe me, when I am in love, and am being treated with love, there is no possible way that the thought of another man comes to mind. But if a man imagines that he thinks he sees me being being with another man, I think he's out of his mind. The only reason I'd leave a man is because he does not have my admiration, respect, and trust as a friend or a lover. My point is, love and good communication does not require rules of possession.
A sign of love is buying flowers and spending time instead of requiring a notarized permission slip,
Possessiveness strangles love.
It isn't. It's a sign of insecurity. And insecurity isn't healthy or positive.
Too much of it is actually a sign of insecurity and lack of trust to your partner..
It's a sign of an imbalance in the relationship, a lack of trust and love. It would only work if both partners are possessive. Otherwise possessiveness is a relationship destroyer
I don't think it could work even then.
I've known a few couples like this. But for most true it just can't work! :)