better question ..... why do you allow it? <br />
--stop what you dont want, stand up for your self.
I don't know, but don't take it personal - seems like people get worse every day.<br />
I just hold on to Keepers, my cat (my picture)<br />
Hope it gets better.
they're not being mean they're negging you, people who are bullies do so from a position of insecurity
They don't have to be mean, but most people are the way they are and you can't change that. Try not to take things personally and keep a positive attitude/outlook.
How do you expect to survive in this world without thick skin?
Yeah, but didn't you go through high school? Just remember what they say matters about as much as what those ******** from freshman year said.
nope, Bullies are present everywhere. It's like homelessness, poverty, and hunger, you can't get rid of it. I hate to say it but not only does the bullying become more sneaky it also impacts your life way more. Especially when HR sides with your bully boss.
I have never has it easy when making friends and I am always nuce. I was bullied in school....a lot! Mainly because I think I was pretty girl's ex boyfriends would ask me out and I was a shy type i.e. easy pray. I don't fight back. People will be rude when they can. <br />
I don't believe in being rude or turning into one of them. Best thing is to ignore them and understand they are not important.
About 50% of my questions, even the fun ones, draw some fire from meanies: insecure little egoists with low self esteem hoping to inflate themselves by sarcasm. Never works....
We teach people how to treat us by allowing them to treat us without respect. Say something, stick up for yourself and if they continue, keep away from them where possible.
People are mean. To everyone.
I don't consider myself mean, or think that you are either. If someone is crappy to me I think; it's too bad that person is having a bad day, or I hope that person gets well soon. It's probably not personal if you don't know what you did wrong. Really that's all a bad interaction comes down to- negative perception, yours or theirs. People have so much going on in their lives that sometimes it's hard to see past it.
How do they even have access to your wall?
No matter what they have to say, don't let them cause you to second guess yourself. When it doesn't apply, let it fly.
I wish you luck, and a little extra courage. No one could pay me enough to be your age again.