cause you can't hurt a stranger they way you can close... you have more .... 'ammo'
when you are in a 'i want to hurtsomeone' mood. you want to inflick maximum damage. strangers are harder to hurt as you have no leverage or foothold to aim at. with someone you know.... FIRE AT WILL. you know where and how and what to say to knock them out the park....the oracle has spoken ;)
because they may feel as if that person will give up on them like everyone else did
Because the people they hurt are the closest ones to them and the only ones they can get close enough to hurt.
'Cause we're all imperfect and do stupid things and we tend to expect the most out of the ones we love so it hurts a lot worse.<br />
It's easy to make excuses for ourselves, I wanna get better at making excuses for others and not take everything so personally.
Because they're there and willing to take the crap because they love you. If a stranger was to hurt me, I would tell them to **** off & then I would forget. A family though, they're always forgiving... You can't ignore & forget them... Unless you truly hate them :/ <br />
Just my opinion & experience
It's the same answer as "Why do good people do bad things?" Life put us in so many situations where we must choose what to do . . . some actions hurt our loved ones but seem the only alternative. To understand why, you have to understand what motivated them and whether there were any better alternatives.
Because the ones you love are the handiest people around when you are angry frustraited or afraid.
its not a rule and not the way it should be. The 2 driving forces in most men are fear and anger. These are the only feeling 'men' are allowed to have growing up.Think about all the pent up **** men feel but are not allowed to express. Then figure , who will get the most run off from it, the ones they are around the most.
It's all good fun as long as everyone remembers their safe-word
There is a VERY thin line between love and hate