When they feel hurt then they can focus on it and they feel control when in the rest of their lives they have no control and can't deal with the big things they are really afraid of.
Oops i thought the question asked something different
? Nobody knows my friend nobody knows
oooooooooooooohhhh.......this we will never know nor understand.....ever.
hurt people, hurt people
Why do people, like to make people happy?