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Why do people say I'm jealous of the person who is bullying me?

It makes me really sad. This person doesn't bully me in front of other people but waits till I'm alone or just with her friends to do cruel things. She's done stuff to set me off for years until I blew up and started screaming at her... She started crying... I was also crying/apologizing... so people bully me who aren't even her cronies. I've tried for so long to make this girl understand that I just want to be friendly. She doesn't care. Over time I've grown to hate her b/c people think she's a saint. Whenever I've even complained about her harassment PEOPLE THINK I'M JEALOUS OF HER AND MAKING IT UP.
I know I just need to forget her, and I can't wait until I never have to see her again. But she disturbs me. People only see what they want to see. And they want to see her as who she fakely projects herself to be... And they want to see me...
what's worse is that she's on a reality tv show so she's famous now. I have to see her on tv sometimes. so many people love her. its so scary!!

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    latejohnsilver - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by latejohnsilver 1 Apr 23rd, 2012 at 12:37PM

    Stop trying to be so friendly. You will be hurt, harassed and bullied your entire life if you keep this up. Remember when you screamed at her and she cried? She cried because you made her back off. That was a much better response than trying to explain or be friendly.

    If you make yourself an easy target, people will attack you. They're animals, they're nasty, it's what they do.

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  1. cooney55 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by cooney55 Apr 23rd, 2012 at 12:27PM

    Get to the press; that's where it will really hurt! Tell the TV reporters what a ***** she secretly is...they love this kind of rot, and will run with it! Good luck.

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  2. Vetiver93 - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by Vetiver93 Apr 23rd, 2012 at 12:31PM

    no one will defend me though. She has armies and armies of drones.

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  3. cooney55 - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by cooney55 Apr 23rd, 2012 at 12:37PM

    You don't need any defense! You can even submit this "tip" anonymously. I'd rip her a new one.. this kind of person is truly Evil..

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  4. laniferous - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by laniferous Apr 23rd, 2012 at 12:24PM

    Do you have it in you to really bite back? Dont put up w this! When I was in school people went as far as throwing rocks at me, even. I was always tangling with someone, usually verbally. Cant you fight back, even if you lose?

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  5. Vetiver93 - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by Vetiver93 Apr 23rd, 2012 at 12:25PM

    You know I should. **** her beach blonde big boobed act.

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  6. deltadon - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by deltadon Apr 23rd, 2012 at 12:26PM

    i was gonna say somethin totally different?!......but kickin a ss sounds way better ;-)

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  7. atadir - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by atadir Apr 23rd, 2012 at 3:20PM

    Can you describe an example where she hunted you down and started attacking you?

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  8. Vetiver93 - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by Vetiver93 Apr 29th, 2012 at 11:16AM

    because you don't believe me. ex- the cafeteria, wait until everyone got up and then she'd sit by me and 'talk", or in the hall... Make it so avoiding her would look bad. She'd pull me aside.

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