well, they did change...they're no longer a virgin.
because sex is not just physical...its mental and emotional and even spiritual. the physical aspect of sex is actually minute in comparison. if you think about what you're really doing when you have sex, it gives the concept a deeper perception. your body is truly the ONLY thing that belongs to you and having sex, gives away that most precious commodity...after the action occurs a whirlwind of emotions surface. sometimes, they're good and sometimes they're bad...sometimes they are easy to deal with and sometimes they can erupt into a lifetime of confusion. that's why sex was meant to be shared between two people that are ready to unify their existence. you can't do that with someone you just met or someone you don't want to be tied to.
i didn't change. maybe you just look at them differently.
Well, you do .......because now your whole body is open to everything, and the first time will be your wirst time if you get pregnant or a disease. It changes everything about you but for the guy, it changes nothing because they just go to the next after you.
Its the apply on the tree that looked ready to eat.