Because there are a lot of selfish f¥¢kers out there. Which is why I have learned to be more selective on who I allow into my life. & as soon as my spidey senses start tingling & I sense BS in the air I hand out walking papers. Simple as that. I used to be a sweet heart who was always helping every one who needed saving, Until I learned that most people are full of $hit & will take advantage of you when given the opportunity to do so. I am a much happier person now that I am more selective. Sorry about the profanity, I just tend to speak what's on my mind.
Because they don't care. Drop them on their *** as soon as possible. They dont deserve you as a friend or as an acquaintance for that matter.
I've been treated like **** way too many times. And I'm at the point where its like 3 strikes and you're out. If they care about you, they'll fight for your friendship.
That kind of reminds me of one of my friends. Makes me think because before I used to have a car and we'd hang out a lot and now that my sister took it back and I have no money for gas to see her, she has literally not even bothered trying to see me and its been over 2 months. She manages to see her boyfriend though who gives her everything she asks and pays for all her stuff as long as she gives him sex. Or this chick that she met named Kristen who has a car and a job and ****. She hangs out with everyone but me now. ****** me off.
I'm about to. And I'm going to add you. You seem cool as hell.
The secret is balance I think. I want to live my life the way I want to as well, but if you do that all the time, you won't have the space for anyone else!!!!
b/c their selfish n its sad u dnt want to associate wit peps like that they mean u no good in ya life
Because if they aren't handling theirs correctly, why would anyone take their advice?
You are either giving too much or you are having high expectations.
You know what I often wonder about that too...and still doesn't know the answer! If I had a go at answering, I'd say out of selfishness.
Great question,and you have to consider it on a person by person basis.
Self preservation. This is why the wild often eat their young.
Get away from these toxic people
Some people are completely self-absorbed and lack not only empathy but common sense when it comes to situations requiring compromise. And many control-freaks are insensitive narcissists.
Guess it's the bored little pissants live their life through yours.<br />
Or it could be they think everyone should live their life the way they live theirs...<br />
Live your life your way and to h-ll with the rest!
Read the book Boundaries...also it's ok to get rid of those types of people in your life
try to stop being ''peoples pleaser'' and set limits on others around you. Its polite to care about people around you and please them at times.. But dont forget yourself! if they dont treat you the same way you treat them then thats their problem.. dont let something like this put you down. Stop basing your self worth on how much you do for other people. You gotta learn how to say no :)
Many people are like that. It is like if you wanted to take your own life. You could be suffering to the point where there is just no way out. The other people around you just can't have that said person around anymore for them to do whatever those people want from them. It is a fine line, however.
Fallen nature. Me, ME, ME, SeLF